Get Your Ex Back When You’ve Let Yourself Go

Have you ever been told you were too fat? Ever been dumped by someone you’d given your heart to because your weight became an issue? It can be painful to hear and it can take awhile to bounce back.

In a perfect world, we all have partners who love us no matter how much weight we’ve gained. In a world behind rose colored glasses, we’re cared for and desired no matter if we putter around in our ugliest sweats or plain, ratty tee shirts. It stinks that we don’t live in a perfect world where physical beauty doesn’t matter as much who we are as a person.

Daily, our senses are bombarded by images of perfection. “Lose Weight!,’ ‘Be a Perfect Size Six,’ “Men, Build Those Six Pack Abs’ and headlines that make us feel as if we’re less than perfect because our weight isn’t ideal.

Is it wrong that if we’re overweight we’re not always thought of as an attractive, appealing person? Well, yes, but that’s just the way the world operates and you can’t change it. You can’t change how people view you and you can’t change how your loved one sees you physically.

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Sure, true love should conquer all including when we’re physically out of shape, but if you’ve been dumped because you’ve gained too much weight, then you know it doesn’t. You might be thinking, “He or she should love me and think I’m beautiful or handsome no matter how much weight I gain.”

They should, and no one likes the emphasis on size any more than the next person. But people are human and we’re drawn to beauty. We’re drawn to bodies that are physical fit. Getting in shape and losing weight can help you not only feel better about your health, and make you feel sexier, it can make your ex become attracted to you all over again.

If you’ve lost your partner and one of the reasons your ex gave was due to your weight, you can do something about it. Not only could you improve your love life and get back the man or woman you long for, you’ll be amazed at what getting in shape can do for you.

If your ex admitted your weight was a problem for them, please don’t do what I did and take it personal even though it feels personal.

Don’t waste time brooding over the hurt because that won’t change a thing anyway. Get up and do something about it.

Making a decision makes you feel better. You have a goal in mind and you’re moving forward.

Look at losing weight as the means to getting your ex back. As you lose weight, you’ll feel more attractive.

 When you feel more attractive about yourself, that inner assurance shines out and attracts people to you, including your ex. On the plus side of getting your ex back when you regain your shape, you’ll find that you’ve gained more confidence, too.